Dealing and being with the gay guys especially drag queens could be very energy draining. This became so true last Friday night and the weeks of preparation before for the Miss Victorian Secrets and Laffter Arena.
What could really upset and irritate me, is when some of us are so acting like real Divas, drama queens, bitches, and backstabbers – - - not Anton Diva, as he was really a certified Diva! Although there are some of us, who are clear with what they want, some people are a little bit confused or “being everywhere” that sometimes they step on other’s high heeled shoes, and just thinking of their own selves.
It is so easy to be emotionally involved, especially if you are the sensitive type like me. And I am thinking, I should not really be in this business, afterall!
I found reconciling everything at the end of the day … forgetting what had been said and done and sending and wishing good thoughts to everyone.
At the end of the day, the gay community is still a minority - and we should be here to uplift each other, our rights and image in the community 
Life is full of bittersweet moments. It’s always better to patch up after a fight so that relationships will not be harmed pero it also depends on what kind of argument it is that took place.
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my dear jase,
It’s nice to hear you taking the higher road and sending everybody love and understanding instead of fighting back. that’s a true lady